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		<title>Savile, Messham, Newsnight, McAlpine, Watson and You; Of victims, villains and rescuers.</title>
		<link>http://neildenny.wordpress.com/2012/11/10/savile-messham-newsnight-mcalpine-watson-and-you-of-victims-villains-and-rescuers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Nov 2012 10:45:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Victims, villains and rescuers. Hard to keep track of who is who, isn&#8217;t it? Let&#8217;s start with Savile. Savile with his now odious &#8220;Jim&#8217;ll fix it for you&#8221; thing.  Rescuer. Yay. Savile as alleged serial abuser.  Villain. Boo. Next up.  Newsnight. Newsnight originally fail to air &#8220;Unsubstantiated&#8221; Savile report.  Villain. Boo. Newsnight subsequently air Messham&#8217;s shocking [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=neildenny.wordpress.com&#038;blog=5470318&#038;post=483&#038;subd=neildenny&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The #1 dispute resolution lesson from the USA elections.</title>
		<link>http://neildenny.wordpress.com/2012/11/06/the-1-dispute-resolution-lesson-from-the-usa-elections/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Nov 2012 18:33:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neildenny</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Conflict Stories In The News]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[ad hominem attacks]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[attack ads]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[jabbing finger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Obama]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[President]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I want to write very briefly about the USA elections, the number 1 lesson we can learn from it and run a  quick competition to enable you to win two copies of my book&#8230; scroll to the bottom for the competition. First though, here is that #1 conflict resolution lesson that I promised you in the title. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=neildenny.wordpress.com&#038;blog=5470318&#038;post=479&#038;subd=neildenny&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Why it is difficult to receive an apology.</title>
		<link>http://neildenny.wordpress.com/2012/07/30/why-it-is-difficult-to-receive-an-apology/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jul 2012 21:25:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neildenny</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[The Interesting Thing About Conflict...]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Apology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[forgiveness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[grudgeology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[saying sorry]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[On Friday I was consumed by righteous indignation and disgust at a comment that a lawyer I know on social media platforms had written.  I told him so and &#8220;Unfollowed.&#8221; On Sunday evening, he apologised to me directly, on Twitter. I was surprised by this apology and challenged as well.  It occurred to me that [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=neildenny.wordpress.com&#038;blog=5470318&#038;post=475&#038;subd=neildenny&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>We are never more wrong than when we are most right.</title>
		<link>http://neildenny.wordpress.com/2012/07/05/we-are-never-more-wrong-than-when-we-are-most-right/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jul 2012 15:38:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neildenny</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Conflict Stories In The News]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we are convinced that we are right then we close ourselves off to criticism or to dissenting voices and opinions. The results can be devastating. A report on the Fukushima nuclear disaster has stated that the crisis was caused by &#8220;“Our reflexive obedience; our reluctance to question authority; our devotion to ‘sticking with program’; [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=neildenny.wordpress.com&#038;blog=5470318&#038;post=471&#038;subd=neildenny&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>How to receive feedback</title>
		<link>http://neildenny.wordpress.com/2012/06/27/how-to-receive-feedback/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2012 21:04:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neildenny</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Conflict in Organisations]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The Interesting Thing About Conflict...]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to receive feedback]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[just say thank you]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[taking bad feedback]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[A couple of days ago a delegate from a keynote talk I recently gave (see www.getartisan.co.uk) got in touch by email. By all accounts she had loved the talk.  I was pleased about this as her own training work within mediation and collaborative practice is something that I admire and respect. But there was something [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=neildenny.wordpress.com&#038;blog=5470318&#038;post=468&#038;subd=neildenny&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Playing Musical Statues With The Conflict Averse</title>
		<link>http://neildenny.wordpress.com/2012/06/11/playing-musical-statues-with-the-conflict-averse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jun 2012 14:31:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neildenny</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Conflict in Organisations]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[conflict averse]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a moment at every child&#8217;s party that I have grown to detest. It is the popular but increasingly fraught game of musical statues. For those unfamiliar with the rules in musical statues you play music and all of the children dance.  Or run.  Or just wave their arms around. The music is stopped [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=neildenny.wordpress.com&#038;blog=5470318&#038;post=463&#038;subd=neildenny&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Worthless pesky trespassing scum</title>
		<link>http://neildenny.wordpress.com/2012/05/18/worthless-pesky-trespassing-scum/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 18:36:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neildenny</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oh the irony. So, I am on my way home from delivering my Grudgeology workshop in London.  It has been well received,  I&#8217;m going to be home within the hour and all is well. I then become aware that we have come to a standstill, the train has stopped. No station. &#8220;Look, there&#8217;s some kids [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=neildenny.wordpress.com&#038;blog=5470318&#038;post=459&#038;subd=neildenny&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Full stop. End of.</title>
		<link>http://neildenny.wordpress.com/2012/05/17/full-stop-end-of/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 08:18:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neildenny</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you noticed this pattern; Someone asserts their point, often over asserting it, and they then add on this strange comment at the end.  &#8221;Full stop.&#8221; or &#8220;End of story&#8221; or even more bizarre, the abbreviated form of that which is reduced down to just &#8220;End of.&#8221; Yesterday saw Theresa May, the UK home secretary [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=neildenny.wordpress.com&#038;blog=5470318&#038;post=456&#038;subd=neildenny&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Have you heard the one about the Israeli conflict resolution expert and the trade union?</title>
		<link>http://neildenny.wordpress.com/2012/04/30/israeli-conflict-resolution-trade-unionhave-you-heard-the-one-about-the-israeli-conflict-resolution-expert/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 21:23:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>neildenny</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[attribution]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Conflict is complex.  No doubt about it.  One of its complexities is the way it can quickly turn in on itself, seducing us all, even the experts, into its destructive ways. I&#8217;m grateful to my friend and book designer Ayd Instone, for bringing this article to my attention. It tells the story of an Israeli [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=neildenny.wordpress.com&#038;blog=5470318&#038;post=453&#038;subd=neildenny&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Getting It Wrong</title>
		<link>http://neildenny.wordpress.com/2012/04/27/getting-it-wrong/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2012 13:12:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ever made a mistake? Where on earth do they come from?  How do they happen? Look at this picture I took this morning on the train to work.  I call it Rainbow and Cow; View From A Train.  I&#8217;m quite pleased with it. There were a few things I was really pleased with.  I thought [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=neildenny.wordpress.com&#038;blog=5470318&#038;post=449&#038;subd=neildenny&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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